Mum, it will soon be 1 year since my sons' dad Tom (my former husband) died so tragically of cancer. Both my boys are struggling so desperately to accept the loss of their father but it has hit them so hard it seems they will never come to terms with their loss. Please watch over Tom and Dan and give them the strength they need to continue without their dad. Dan especially is grieving so badly at this time and I live too far away to put my arms around him and hold him while he sobs. It's breaking my heart mum. Please, if you see Tom, ask him to find a way to comfort his sons, ask him to reassure them that he is still with them both in spirit and will never truly leave them. My son's need strength mum, if you know of a way to help them please do so. I miss you so very much and love you forever. Xxxx